first, if you haven´t read my other post i made do it now:
SLAPYOS NEW RULES
before we start i just want to say, don´t get all psychological unless you really want to...i´m a psych major ready to graduate. :-]
now, as for everything you said. great, good for you. that´s it. i have always said that you guys have made the site, egtdude and i provide a place for you guys, but you are the ones that make it what it is and we have ALWAYS thanked you for that.
we are not holding any of you here. we would love more people to show up. i wouldn´t even mind having to fork over more money to get more bandwidth and webhosting if we had to because we had more traffic. but if you or any other wanna leave, go ahead, we don´t care. it´s not like we will feel cheated or anything else. sure it would suck to see you go since thats the opposite of what we want. but whatever, thats your choice.
the rules were put into place because we saw excessive use of language and threats. i´m not gonna say that i don´t cuss, i do. but the forum becomes lame when that´s all you read is cuss words. plus the fact that i have had many newspapers interview me about the site. i don´t want people showing up to the site and going "wow, lots of cussing, what a quality site." you guys have no clue how many emails i recieve daily asking about tech questions on their cars. and i try to answer them if i can, but i always point them to the forum. i have people ranging in age from teens to older folks just lookin for some help fixin their cars. i know the older folks probably don´t appreciate the cussing flying around here like it was some pirate ship.
sure ur george carlin quote is cool and yeah it should be applied to an extent. that would be in a perfect world, but it´s not so deal with it.
you can shame on us however or whenever you want. we don´t make these rules because we saw another site out there do it, or because every other site is doing it. we did it cause we felt it was necessary. these are the only 2 basic rules the site has, beyond using common sense.
the bottom line is, if you don´t like it then don´t come here. cause i could care less. seriously. you guys have no clue how much time, effort, and money is dumped into this site. we don´t mind doing it because we like it, and we like seeing the site be used. the more people the better.
i´ll tell you right now, we would have implemented this rule along time ago if the cussing in the posts was as bad as it has gotten. i for one don´t want the cussing to be a major part of the site and i know egtdude doesn´t either. there is alot more than cussing that makes a site full of content. if you wanna cuss, why don´t you go outside and scream or chat to your buddies on IM. just don´t do it in here. if the cussing is what is attracting people then i definitly don´t want it happening because then that is all there is going to be. i don´t want those kind of people here.
i don´t see why some people are having such a cow over 2 simple rules. i don´t care though, thats the rules of the site, like it or not. i have said that i don´t care alot through out this post, because i don´t. i do care about the site, and i do care that people use it and want to use it. but i don´t care about people who complain about rules that are put in place. as soon as any of you wanna start footing the bill and maintaining the site then you can make your own rules, until then follow the rules. it´s really not that hard.
i do want to apologize for those people who hate to see this bickering, it´s dumb. but this has happened before and i can tell you right now it will happen in the future, it´s only a matter of time. i started this site off with another guy when it was only 8 people and we had to manually update the pages. so we have grown from 8 people to 1100. i don´t think that putting this rule in will push everyone away. sure some, that´s fine. but since 98 when i started this the site has done nothing but grow. so please, don´t think that you really have any affect on this site, you are just one person.
i´m probably sounding like an ass right about now, but that´s ok. i´m sick of everything egtdude and i do to the site, only to hear complaints about how its run. if you don´t like it you have 2 choices. you can suck it up and follow the rules, which are not that hard to follow, or you can go. i´m never sick of the complements, or the usage of the site though, always makes me happy that i am doing it and that i am part of it. heck, i don´t even have an escort anymore, yet i still continue to run the site.
so i´ll end like i always do when crap like this comes up.
ENJOY THE SITE!!!
that is what it is all about, you know you can have fun without cussing like sailors or by making threats which are stupid in the first place. people have to get so uptight over silly little things, just kick back, meet some people, talk to other enthusiasts and most of all have fun. maybe i should make that a rule too.
so i´m sorry for all those out there who enjoy the site and appreciate what we do for it. and we know you have a lot of choices for your entertainment dollar, we are glad you chose FEOA.