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if you have a girlfriend, is it ok to have a picture of a celebrity girl on your own computer?
is it ok?
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well like, bikini, top and bottom.... it's a lindsay lohan pic. i mean, i got rid of it, but, she's HOT.... and like, she's HOT. plus the background color was blue. blue's my favorite color.Kim said:
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It's not just acceptable, it's expected.
There's an easy solution. Punt your g/f and love your hand. Then for sure you'll be having sex with someone you love.
There's an easy solution. Punt your g/f and love your hand. Then for sure you'll be having sex with someone you love.
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well it put her over the top i guess, and she booted me first. and then, she called her parents crying, and her DAD was mad about it. i'm like, "wtf??? is this not MY computer????"highanddry said:
one thing.... she knew i was a hornball to begin with, and then she kept bein like "oh now i want to wait until marraige to have sex. and i'm like "wait a second.... first we were doin somethin like 10 seconds ago, now you wanna what?"
and i'm sick of having to defend myself and shit like that, and then she changes her mind of what she wants every 5 seconds. its cruel and unusual to turn somebody on, and then tell them you're not going to do anything.
I'm not sure about cruel and unusual. I'd have to say I have a lot of respect for anyone who waits. I'm guessing she's decided to do everything but. She doesn't know what she wants. The calling her parents about your computer...that is unusual. You defending yourself...sounds like too much fighting.
You'll be going to college soon and when they say don't be tied down, it's great advice. Except don't be like all the disgusting guy sluts at my school. They have horrible beer breath and are just something to be made fun of. Ya sound like a guy with a good heart, ya just have a lot of testosterone. Burn it havin a good time and usin your hand lol. Oh and when ya do find the girl that is a joy and not a frustration make sure to notice.
Ya two will be happier apart. Not because of the sex issue that's just the symptom of the problem. I can tell in your words something really sin't right. Breaking up now is saving time, it'll just happen later anyway.
You'll be going to college soon and when they say don't be tied down, it's great advice. Except don't be like all the disgusting guy sluts at my school. They have horrible beer breath and are just something to be made fun of. Ya sound like a guy with a good heart, ya just have a lot of testosterone. Burn it havin a good time and usin your hand lol. Oh and when ya do find the girl that is a joy and not a frustration make sure to notice.
Ya two will be happier apart. Not because of the sex issue that's just the symptom of the problem. I can tell in your words something really sin't right. Breaking up now is saving time, it'll just happen later anyway.
LOL I just remembered something! My fiance lived in a wreck of a party house when I met him and they had naked girls stapled up all over the walls. I never even really thought much of em. They were just wallpaper to me LOL. Also I fought with all my ex's, but I don't fight with Mark. If we have a problem it's just talked about. No big blow out, no constant issues, and best of all nothing to complain about. Love really isn't spose to hurt.
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we never used to fight... it's more of a recent development since she moved away and went to college.Kim said:
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ooo yea I remember when I went to college and my ex was here two hours away. We fought all the time. So many people in my dorm were up late yelling on the phone in the hallway with their bf's or gf's that the RA had to make a rule for all phone fights to be done in the bathroom so ppl could sleep lol. I was with him for two years of college, super stupid lemme tell ya. Big waste of time, energy, and life.
I met Mark when he was 18 and I was in my last year of college. He was in my home area so he was also two hours away. The peace in our relationship allowed me to be a part of my senior year without any constant relatioship anguish. So dispite being long distance, him being three years younger, and he lived on his own so he worked 60hrs. a week overnite it was all good. At one point, he didn't even have a car to come up there. But when it's right even all that doesn't cause issues.
I met Mark when he was 18 and I was in my last year of college. He was in my home area so he was also two hours away. The peace in our relationship allowed me to be a part of my senior year without any constant relatioship anguish. So dispite being long distance, him being three years younger, and he lived on his own so he worked 60hrs. a week overnite it was all good. At one point, he didn't even have a car to come up there. But when it's right even all that doesn't cause issues.
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i just need to find somebody new, somebody i can feel comfortable around and with, and not argue with all the time, because i'm pretty layed back. but i can argue pretty good sometimes, because i'm pretty stubborn. but the thing is, after i started going out with her, i kept getting all this new attention from all these hot girls. and it's just like, why couldn't you give me this kind of attention before i started going out with her???? it's too late now i don't know.... i think i feel more confident, and less like i have to impress somebody now, because i already had somebody i didn't have to impress. so what do you think?
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Holy cow man.
This issue is way beyond what we losers at FEOA can provide help for. One thing is for sure - you cannot apply the same logic used to analyze car problems to relationship problems. Chicks don't have an ECU; they have estrogen.
Dr. highanddry says:
But seriously...if she canned you for that, the relationship was doomed anyway. That should not have even been an issue. There are issues that are significant enough to be understandable strains on a relationship; a screensaver isn't one of them. In a relationship, you must always be yourself. If she won't let you be yourself or if you feel you have to act differently around her, move on. It ain't gonna work.
You're at college now; you do a complete change-over of friends once you move on from high school. Most times, this includes girlfriend too because you're in different circles now.
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Now gow grab some friends, hit the pub for some drinks and then let loose at the local ripper bar. Get right in the drip tray. It won't solve your problems, but who cares?
You're gonna need a new avatar, obviously. :wink:
You'll be fine. Whatever happens, don't let this mess up your school year.
This issue is way beyond what we losers at FEOA can provide help for. One thing is for sure - you cannot apply the same logic used to analyze car problems to relationship problems. Chicks don't have an ECU; they have estrogen.
Dr. highanddry says:
But seriously...if she canned you for that, the relationship was doomed anyway. That should not have even been an issue. There are issues that are significant enough to be understandable strains on a relationship; a screensaver isn't one of them. In a relationship, you must always be yourself. If she won't let you be yourself or if you feel you have to act differently around her, move on. It ain't gonna work.
You're at college now; you do a complete change-over of friends once you move on from high school. Most times, this includes girlfriend too because you're in different circles now.
FEOA highanddry the a-hole says:
Now gow grab some friends, hit the pub for some drinks and then let loose at the local ripper bar. Get right in the drip tray. It won't solve your problems, but who cares?
You're gonna need a new avatar, obviously. :wink:
You'll be fine. Whatever happens, don't let this mess up your school year.
well as a girl i wouldnt have a problem with it. i had a pic of johnny depp up in my room for ages and the bf didnt care. heaps of people find more than one person attractive, and its not really like a celeb is a threat to your relationship cause its not like youre likely to go running off with her and dump your gf... but then if she took it so hard i guess you arent right together.
my car's a little girl so that means an ecu and estrogen- no wonder i have so much trouble with the thing! :roll:
my car's a little girl so that means an ecu and estrogen- no wonder i have so much trouble with the thing! :roll:
Congrats on discovering that your girl is psycho. I think that we're all psycho at some point or another, it just seems that most women go thru a stage (early college age) where they're psycho for 130% of the time.
I started dating older women once I discovered this. Better to avoid that entire demographic and keep your own sanity.
The women in this thread have given some good advice, highanddry especially.
I started dating older women once I discovered this. Better to avoid that entire demographic and keep your own sanity.
The women in this thread have given some good advice, highanddry especially.
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now, thing is, how long is not long enough or too long before i get back in the game, and not have it be a rebound thing?
now, thing is, how long is not long enough or too long before i get back in the game, and not have it be a rebound thing?
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OWNED!Beaverboy said:The women in this thread have given some good advice, highanddry especially.
Nice, Beav, real nice.
As for rebound time, tonight is not too soon.
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hmmmm maybe i'll call up one of my friends hahahighanddry said:OWNED!Beaverboy said:The women in this thread have given some good advice, highanddry especially.
Nice, Beav, real nice.
As for rebound time, tonight is not too soon.
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so.... now she sends me a text message on my phone, saying "i don't know what to do. i still love you, i still think about you, i still miss you." and then she comes online to let me know she sent it, and to see if i got it. so i was like no, but i'll check, and then she was like "i gotta go, we'll talk later"
so what should i do??? i love her more than anything, but that hurt pretty bad. and she has my pants. and hates my driving.
OMG today, it was soo cool. everybody at my school is as excited/interested in cars as i am. and i've gotten alot of compliments on my scort. and this kid i met, thought it was actually pretty fast haha. but seriously, how many cars can you whip the back end around at 30 mph in? i did that pulling into the dorm parking lot, and this guy from his balcony on the 3rd floor yelled down to us "man you need a racetrack"
it was pretty cool.
so what should i do??? i love her more than anything, but that hurt pretty bad. and she has my pants. and hates my driving.
OMG today, it was soo cool. everybody at my school is as excited/interested in cars as i am. and i've gotten alot of compliments on my scort. and this kid i met, thought it was actually pretty fast haha. but seriously, how many cars can you whip the back end around at 30 mph in? i did that pulling into the dorm parking lot, and this guy from his balcony on the 3rd floor yelled down to us "man you need a racetrack"
it was pretty cool.
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Man I am so sorry to hear about that but like everyone says it wasnt meant to be if she throws a fit over a celebrity pic as wallpaper on the computer.Just find yourself a chick thats into cars.
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ok.... so there's more to it than just the picture..... but the picture topped it off.escortlx96 said:
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Oh, so now the truth comes out...
She found you buck naked in front of your computer screen routing through your gigabytes of porn and finally she laid down the guantlet.
Who could blame her?
Naw, just playing. At the very least, you need to pull away for a month or so and take time to evaluate what the relationship means to you. You can't do that if your swapping spit with her everyday. You may find that you don't really miss it after all.
She found you buck naked in front of your computer screen routing through your gigabytes of porn and finally she laid down the guantlet.
Who could blame her?
Naw, just playing. At the very least, you need to pull away for a month or so and take time to evaluate what the relationship means to you. You can't do that if your swapping spit with her everyday. You may find that you don't really miss it after all.
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