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OK.... let's say a guy, bob..... has a friend, fred..... fred has a very controlling g/f, with MAJOR MENTAL ISSUES/PROBLEMS/DISORDERS..... then one night when bob and fred are at a friend's party in which neither bob's nor fred's g/fs wanted to go to. so then when fred and bob are at the party, fred's controlling g/f calls his cell phone 4 times within 1 1/2 hrs. to keep tabs on him...... (by the way, fred rode with bob in his 94 EGT) so then while outside checking out a bronco of somebody's parent, fred's g/f calls twice within a period of 60 seconds. fred then says to bob that he is going to 'jet' when his g/f (we'll call her ms. freak) arrives. ms. freak then calls once more, to which fred says to bob "why is she calling me again". bob replies "probably because she needs to check up on you and make sure you're not talking to any girls"
not 30 seconds later, ms. freak arrives, to pick up her b/f (slave) from a party that she did not want to attend (she WAS invited) and also is picking him up an hour and a half early mind you. later, while everybody has already been discussing how tight the leash is that ms. freak has on fred, everybody decides to try and call fred's cell phone to see why he had to leave. after 4 tries, everybody gives up. so a girl (we'll call her anna) calls his cell phone, only to have ms. freak answer. when anna asks for fred, ms. freak replies "i'm sorry, you've got a wrong number"
meanwhile, bob is worried that his friend fred (has been going out with ms. freak for 3 1/2 months) is in too deep, and also that ms. freak needs to be bitch slapped, and figure out wtf is up. (personally, i would have booted her about 6 months before i met her)

*********for a little background info, ms. freak seems very insecure, and gives dirty looks even to the MOTHER of fred's EX-g/f***************

so anyways, bob is seriously thinking of telling ms. freak WTF IS UP, because fred doesn't seem to have the balls to, and is too whipped to know wtf is goin on.

*******more background info, bob has THE PERFECT relationship with his g/f, who is very beautiful/smart/funny/loves him/not jealous the least bit/lets him do whatever he wants/does whatever she wants. bob is the type of person who would never put up with the kind of crap that ms. freak gives fred************


BOTTOM LINE, WHAT DOES BOB (OF COURSE IT'S ME) DO?????? SHOULD HE TELL MS. FREAK SHE NEEDS TO LOOSEN THE CHOKE CHAIN ALOT, OR SHOULD HE KEEP HIS MOUTH SHUT AND MAYBE JUST TELL HIS BUDDY FRED THAT HE NEEDS TO WAKE UP???????????????????????????????

AS YOU MAY HAVE BEEN ABLE TO SEE, I NEED HELP, AND I NEED IT SOON..... YOUR RESPONSES WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED!!!!!!!

(sorry for the long post)
 

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well, this isn't just a leash, she's got him on a CHOKE CHAIN
 

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As it seems to me they both seem very insecure about one anoter.. It all about trust, you might have to B!yTCh slap some one … you pick :D

Proper diagnose is : “P * S * Y WH!PPED”

You need to get your frined drunk, then he won't bother picking up the phone :D
 

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DreamLand said:
As it seems to me they both seem very insecure about one anoter.. It all about trust, you might have to B!yTCh slap some one … you pick :D

Proper diagnose is : "P * S * Y WH!PPED"

You need to get your frined drunk, then he won't bother picking up the phone :D
that is the proper diagnosis...... and by the way.... i'm 18, he's 17.
so i can't get him drunk...... i COULD just like, confiscate his phone next time. but anyways, i figure i'll talk to her first, then to him. because if i tell him first, she'll win, and nothing will change. see, he doesn't have the balls to stand up to her, but i'll yell at her until she cries (i've actually done it before.... it felt good) and the best part is, she can't win (it's a beautiful thing, believe me)
 

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Uh... DO NOT INTERFERE in that relationship or she'll turn her psycho'ness on you. Let him deal with it. It's his girlfriend. If you go screwin around in their relationship you'll probably cause him to start to defend her, which just tightens her leash around his neck.
 

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...OR SHOULD HE KEEP HIS MOUTH SHUT AND MAYBE JUST TELL HIS BUDDY FRED THAT HE NEEDS TO WAKE UP???????????????????????????????
Ding ding ding!

James is 100% right. If you tell ms. freak that she's psychotic, she'll hate you and get defensive. I've had friends in very similar situations. Fred needs to grow some balls and put that bitch in her place. Just a fore-warning, if you break up with girls like ms. freak, they'll often stalk their ex's. Be careful. Girls like that are kcufed up.
 

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picsplz!! :D

Excellent advice, James.

I love the story... I really thought Fred and Bob were going to 'find' each other after the part about going to the party sans girlfriends.. so I was prepared to give you the "buttsecks is fake sex" lecture.. Oh well, that would have been entertaining.

Anyway... Bob needs to wake up and realize that if he feels in his heart that his relationship is 'perfect' that he's as wipped as Fred... just not by a psycho.
 

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Yeh, i had one of those girls.

There's nothing wrong w/ being pussy whipped. Absolutely nothing wrong w/ it. Most ppl are that way for the first few months. Sounds like to me fred's g/f prolly got cheated on or backstabbed by the ppl she trusted the most so now she has a hard time convincing herself that she is worthy enough for someone else's loyalty. But i will tell you this...when my friends gave me shit about it, i got pissed. One of em actually hit me when i defended her. We dont talk anymore. So your best bet is to let it ride. If you want him to understand what he has to do...wait for moments when you can make a comment that will make him think. If you constantly bring up comments, you will annoy him. Just let it ride man. He'll loosen up that chain once he realizes that she's controlling him. Will take some time, but it will happen. W/ my girl it took me like 6 months to get her to ease up. I've been w/ mine for almost 2 years now and at first she was bad. I didnt notice nor mind cuz i got all the ass i wanted, but as time went by, i noticed more and more and just got to the point where i told her off a few times and she stopped. NOW I HAVE THE HANDLE ON THE CHAIN!!!!
 

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seriously, i am not pw'ed, because i don't get any haha also, i don't do what she tells me, because she doesn't tell me what to do. if i do anything nice for her, it's just because i'm a nice guy... i don't think i can be any more straight forward than that
 

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Another "ditto" for James's advice - Mr. Bob should just remain a good friend to Mr. Fred and not INTERFERE in his and Ms. Freak's relationship no matter how difficult it may be, otherwise it might just be that Mr. Bob and Ms Freak ride off into the sunset leaving Mr. Bob sitting in a steaming pile of horse droppings.

Penny :D
 
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