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Hypothetical situation -

You're with a girl for 23 months.
She hates your friends and hate when you hang out with them for no reason. she won't ever get to know them in the first place.
You bring this up repeatedly, and she repeatedly promises she'll change.
You break up with her because you realize she's never going to change, and you realize you're just not "in" love with her.

6 days later you go to lunch with a girl from work because you happen to have the same lunch schedule and you want to go to the same place. her best friend ends up being your waitress.

the next day, she attempts to light your car on fire by throwing 3 burning books of matches on to your passenger seat while youre car is outside of your workplace and you're inside working, followed up by a full cup of coffee being poured on the drivers seat.

she then posts in her online journal that she is going to kill you.

what would YOU do?
 

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id be a little worried, and maybe just talk to her see why shes so upset (as if you dont already know) and tell her why it was the way it was...tito dont worry, my x too decided to get mad and she stabbed my new subs and burnt my amp by bridging a paperclip inbetween poles, (+ and -) good stuff huh?
 

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Well...you could call the police to keep that crazy b*atch away from you, your home, your friends and your car....

*DISCLAIMER*
Well the following text is kinda sick so you might not want to read it if you have heart problems or can be easily offended or what so ever...

Or you could wait for her to get out of her house as she is going to work. Follow her on her way to work and wait till she heads off for the office, then steal her car (wearing gloves) and try to make the engine blow or almost by autocrossing in the parking lot...you could also improve your skills at burning rubber on clean asphalt... You could also cut her brake lines...but then its not cool cauz she might hurts innocent people...

If there is some kind of a field next to her working place you could even try to rally her car around as fast as possible in order to beat her suspension to death... If you're crazy enough you could try to get the car upside down without hurting yourself...kind of ACE VENTURA STYLE

You could also write something in her hood with holes made by a knife....
You could aslo capture her and burn her with a propane torch and peel the skin off her body..but if you do so..you're good for the mental institute...but hey if you liked your escort!! :)

*End of the sick part*

But...i would simply call the police and tell them that my ex is freakin me out...then i would try to sue her and force her to pay for the repairs.... and i would probably autocross with her car in the parking lot just for the fun of IT !!! :D 8) :roll:
 

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Seriously, a girl who tries to control you and keep you away from your friends and judging them without even trying to get to know them does not deserve any worries....girls and also boys who acts like that should head straight for the psychiatric institute cauz they sure have a lot of problems....and this is serious....my first girlfriend was like that and i'D say that she really needed professionnal help from a doctor... You can't do this to somebody..you can't force an individual to bent himself in order to suit your needs...this is non sense...i call this slavery and manipulation... and those are some of the things that i hate the most....playing with mind is not cool..not at all!
 

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Damn I thought it sucked when one of my ex's acussed me of stalking her. She told all her friends and mine afeww were both of our friends.
The funniny thing is I was going to school full-time in a town 30min. away and working full time. I had no time to stalk her I was to busy sleeping.

Thank god my friends and even some of hers didn't believe her. She had a history of accusing ALL of her ex-boyfriends of that.

But, dude I agree with everyone else call the cops, at least you'll have a police report if she tries any thing in the future.
 

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CYA. Document everything no matter how trivial. Don't dismiss anything, or put anything off because you can take care of it later. Any suspicious incident that may not directly relate to her - document it. You never know what may come out during an investigation, if it comes to that.

Throughout it all and no matter how bad it gets, do not let yourself be tempted to respond in kind. Restraint is the key. Do not let her have ANYTHING on you. Same goes for her friends. Hold yourself up in a dignified and respectable manner. In short, don't do anything that might give her an edge in court.

If you ever have to go to court, the best thing to have is documentation because that is worth so much more than 'he said / she said". Without documentation, it's just your word against hers and the judge is likely to put it off to a 'lovers quarrel'.

Justice is not free. You have to work for it my friend. Good luck!
 

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well, it depends on just how hypothetical of a situation we're talking about lol
i went out with this one girl though, and then when she told me about a couple different guys she slept with, i dumped her, and "accidentally" called her a sl*t. then she was like "i got guys at my feet... ur @$$ is hit!"
crazy sl*t..... never did anything though, and nothing ever happened to me..... so, yeah... she actually did have a couple guys beat up this other guy for her because he did stuff with her and then told everybody she was easy. which the guy pretty much hit the nail on the head. head haha anyways, i would take keep your cool, don't respond, take legal action if necessary.


oh yeah.... that, and "acidentally" spill some acid on her hood in the shape of the words "HA" and "HA"
 

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thescortgt said:
and then when she told me about a couple different guys she slept with, i dumped her, and "accidentally" called her a sl*t.
If you had gotten your ass beat.. you probably would have deserved it.

:wink:

Tito, she's very cute.. but I can read where it says "Psycho!" across her right temple.. just under her hair.
 

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Bone her best friend.

Actually, the best thing to do is report her to the police. Any girl that will do crap like that is whack. No chick, no matter how hot she may be, how great she is in bed, how good of a kisser she is, or anything else, is not worth it. Trust me. Being 30 years old, I have had my share of hotties...and ugly ones, I have learned to look past the exterior and fall for whats inside. If she thinks she needs to control you, it isn't love. Get a girl that worships the ground you walk on, and you have found the most beautiful girl in the world. Forget about that girl. If she was really the one for you, you would know it. Those that are the closest to your heart will hurt you the worst.

let her know it is over. Dont fall for the "I wan't to get together with you one last time, no strings attached" That is a set-up. She will say she is pregnant hoping you will take her back. Once she does that, you are trapped for the long haul. Cut your losses now and be done with it. If she cares for you, she will want to learn everything about you and will accept you for who you are and noit what she want's you to be.

Take it from me. I have been with a bunch. I know what is out there. The one I was with before the one I am with now hurt me bad. I never thought I would survive. I am so thankful things happened as they did. I found the perfect one. She is the the type of girl that if you took all the ingredients you want in a girl and mixed them up and threw it in the oven, she was the one that came out. Let me tell you, after 6 years, we are the best of friends and she will be my wife one day.

theresa is pushing me to get my Escort done. Why? Because she knows that is my dream and she want's all my dreams to come true. I couldn't ask for anything more.


Tom
 

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Caymen is correct. My wife while not understanding my like for getting dirty and smashing the hell out of myself doing all these goofy things loved to ride along when I autocrossed and really wants me to build her an old GTO, Camero or old 59ish caddy with the wings. Her dad works for GM so I have to put up with the GM thing but its worth it :)
 
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