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ok so this´ll be in a nut shell (james92-firescort-nukewater and egt know where this is coming from.
so last night made plans with this chick to hang for a bit, well hour and1/2 go by so i call her- she says "oh ya sorry i´m on my way".
just so you guys and gals all know it was her choice to be in the FRIEND-ZONE, when you like somone that never works.
so continuing on she shows up at 3 or so creeping in the house, imidiatly saying "oh a- somthing happened with emily - ya her boyfriend and blah blah she need me he hit her" all this shi*.
so she leaves, and as her car pulls out the drive i can see somone else in the car?! hum
ok i´m 28 and too old for this shi*
theres allways gotta be a game.
 

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!!!!!!!!!!!! SOMEONE WAS IN THE VEHICLE!!!!!!! :thwap: (insert icon here) yeah by then i would hope people would mature, thank god im still young, but that just means i have yet to experience all this junk.
 

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well ya i hate to sound like "captain obvious" this is an age old delema that will end up in me having to regulate these chicks.
at least it will justified when i start hearing "guys are all the same"
thnks guys for the friendly ear.
 

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yeah I agree with balde. Chicks ain´t worth it. They usually just want your money. I have my daughter and thats the only woman I need in my life anymore. I just can´t belive that she had someone else int he car when she came to your house. Thats some good stupidity for ya. And nuke from experience I have learned the older ones are usually not the more mature ones. I mean I am 23 and sick of them, thats bad.
 

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Coming from an 18 year old whose 3 month is tomorrow..... Well shit, I really have nothing to say. I guess I´ve been lucky. Never been cheated on (Or so I think o.o), only been dumped once (I was too nice. Shit, now THAT´S a hit to the ego) and managed to stay friends with all (But one) of my ex´s.

If you stand to reason, you´re in the game.
The rules might be elusive, but our pieces are the same.
And you know if one goes down we all go down as well.
The balance is precarious as anyone can tell.
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Sure, it isn´t talking about girls in the song, but it´s the same damn thing. Just by being a guy, you play. We don´t know the rules and never will. They´re subject to change at any time, without warning. We all suffer for one guys mistake....

I usually walk around complaining about girls, find a good one, have a relationship, break up then walk around complaining about em again. It´s a delicate cycle that took years to perfect.
 

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I guess I haven´t given up completely, I just dont really care as much as I did. I dated a couple girls in HS, one for 2 years. I dated one my frosh year here at ERAU, she cheated on me with my best friend of 8 years. It hurt bad. I guess the part that sucked the most is the fact that every time I see her I just fall for her everytime and have for the past 3 years.

Since her it seems like all the girls I meet either want me for their shrink or want to just get with my friends. It hurts emotionally pretty bad, but then again I live in a really small red-neck town.

It seems like lately I dont want a real relationship, I want everything I know I should stay away from. I want a "bad" girl for once. One that treats people like crap. I want one that always wants attention. Preferably into cars. I dont care if its a lifted pickup or a sport compact....just into aftermarket mods. Heck, I dont even care if she is only interested in what I can do for her, type of attitude. ---Sad, but I guess my emotions are kinda FUBAR.

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[ This message was edited by: TheBlade on 13-01-2003 01:48 ]
 

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Well, I´ve been through the trenches out there myself and all you "young bucks" out there who haven´t been through yet...just wait, your time is coming. You will find somebody you really like and play the same B.S. game we all fall for. I can say that I´m done with all the games and really found someone who is really great to me, my car and our relationship. She doesn´t just look out for her wants as much as the others I have dated in the past. We´ve been together over two years and still going strong. She likes my Scort and is always asking if I need any help when it comes to fixing, tweeking or washing the Scort.
Can´t ask much more in a g/f.
All I can say bro, is keep your chin up and keep your eyes opened. Don´t let them start the game.
 

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yeah most girls are lame. Before I met my Fiance I was 10 times worse than you guys. God I hated woman by then *L*.

Its sad how easily us men fall for a girl just to get our harts smashed... even if it is "just to hang out".

Just think as soon as you start acting like a jerk you will be a "bad boy" and get all the woman! Crazy I know.
 

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Well, as for me, I think I´ve found the answer to your dillemna. After experiencing a lot of what you´re all lamenting about, I think I´ve finally found THE ONE. She´s everything I´ve always wanted. Heck, she even likes scorts- she sold me my 91!

As much as I adore this girl, we are only friends, and I intend to keep it that way for the next couple years. Sure, I´ve told her how I feel about her, and I´ll take every oportunity I get to show her how very special she is to me. But until we´re ready to really consider a future together, no romance between us. Sounds crazy?

Trust me guys, this one is worth waiting for! Why wait you ask? Well, she´s going to college like 12 hrs away from me, and I think she needs a couple years to mature too. And I won´t ask a thing of her until I´m ready to make a lifetime commitment to her. I have no right to, in fact. I believe she´s the one for me and I´m willing to bet my life on it too!

Basically, the dating scene sucks. It´s all games, and everyone is just out to use someone else for their own purposes. It was never meant to be this way, and I´m convinced there has to be a BETTER WAY! Here it is (IMHO):

friendship......courtship........marriage

Old-fashioned, yes! It worked so well for so long, and it´s still the only way to avoid all that BS today. Believe me, this makes life so much simpler and easier!

Feel free to disagree, argue, or just generally insult me if you must.
 

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I guess I´d have to agree somewhat. although I´ve been burned by a "friend" before.

To make a relationship work you have to be best friends. If not its a lot harder to make it work.
 

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I haven´t dated since i was a senior in high school. first day of christmas break i took a girl out and she gave me the run around and i told her, forget you, bitch...and I haven´t dated since. besides i bet the next girl i date would get sick of me talking about my car and Gran Turismo 3
 

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or just generally insult me if you must.
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just to keep everything even, i´ll insult ya! ehehe j/k dude
i quite agree actually, it´s honourable and kinda knight like


myself, i´ve been single always. never dated, would like to date, but sh1t just don´t go my way in the women dep´t. ah well, just gotta keep feeding the Scort my income instead
 

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hey 2 red thats a very good approach to it. I have always kinda gone that route but I am just to damn nice alot of the time. And the one I was with, my daughters mom took advantage of me and when she lost her job she relied on me to suport her as in didn´t even want to find another job and still hasn´t after 9 months of being away from work . She just didn´t care about everything i was doing for her so we could survive. It was all what she wanted. She hurt me bad financialy and really got me to lose trust in women. I am kinda scared it will happen again. So thats whay I am bitter twords women. So now I am just gonna take it slow like you said you do and see what happens.

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[ This message was edited by: 91scortgtboy on 14-01-2003 00:34 ]
 

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On 2003-01-14 00:31, 91scortgtboy wrote:
hey 2 red thats a very good approach to it. I have always kinda gone that route but I am just to damn nice alot of the time. And the one I was with, my daughters mom took advantage of me and when she lost her job she relied on me to suport her
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91scortgtboy, first off I totally admire and commend you for your commitment to your daughter. It´s not her fault she was born into a messed-up situation. Love her, and teach her well so that she´ll handle life better than her mom did. What you described about your ex is pretty common I think, and gives us all some insight into femininity.
Yeah, us guys are not unique in using relationships to have our own needs met. Girls do it just as much, only in different ways. You see, when a woman gives herself physically, she at the same time gives herself emotionally. In other words, she becomes dependent on you to meet her needs. Her greatest need is to be cherished and cared for.
I´m totally not knocking women. This is how they were created to be. This is how they were meant to react. Only this was all intended to happen within the safety of marriage, where two people had been joined by a commitment to place the other´s needs ahead of their own out of love for one another.
So guys, it´s up to us to value the precious girls around us, and to treat them with the honor they deserve!

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I am kinda scared it will happen again. So thats whay I am bitter twords women. So now I am just gonna take it slow like you said you do and see what happens.
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Yeah, man, I can guarantee that if you keep doing the same things, you´ll continue to get the same results.
It´s so much less complicated if you can start out friends, and that´s the only good basis for a relationship anyway. If you find that you have feelings for someone, you´ll know what you need to do next. If you truly love someone, you´ll do what´s best FOR THEM.
Good luck and hope it all works out for you!
 

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Not all girls are like that (sadly most of them are). I´m not. I´ve never cheated on a guy, and I pitty the little twerps that do. There´s no excuse for that shit. First of all, the girl should have been straight with you from the get go. Then showing up at YOUR house with someone else with her, that takes balls, or she´s a dumb ass, and I´m thinking it´s the later. Don´t worry about girls. I know I always tend to go for the guys that really aren´t interested. It´s a challege... challenges are good.

I know from personal experiance girls are bitches. Does this sound familiar?
"I´m mad at you but if you don´t know why, I´m not telling you."

My best friend gave me that line shortly before I found out she slept with my boyfriend, and he slept with her because I wasn´t "giving it up." (Sorry, had to vent.... god I hate those two.)

I´m sure you´ll find someone who´ll know they have something special. And until that time, I wish you luck.
 
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