Yep yep, it´s always a game. I coulda told ya that
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dan* chicks
ok so this´ll be in a nut shell (james92-firescort-nukewater and egt know where this is coming from.
so last night made plans with this chick to hang for a bit, well hour and1/2 go by so i call her- she says "oh ya sorry i´m on my way".
just so you guys and gals all know it was her choice to be in the FRIEND-ZONE, when you like somone that never works.
so continuing on she shows up at 3 or so creeping in the house, imidiatly saying "oh a- somthing happened with emily - ya her boyfriend and blah blah she need me he hit her" all this shi*.
so she leaves, and as her car pulls out the drive i can see somone else in the car?! hum
ok i´m 28 and too old for this shi*
theres allways gotta be a game.
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so last night made plans with this chick to hang for a bit, well hour and1/2 go by so i call her- she says "oh ya sorry i´m on my way".
just so you guys and gals all know it was her choice to be in the FRIEND-ZONE, when you like somone that never works.
so continuing on she shows up at 3 or so creeping in the house, imidiatly saying "oh a- somthing happened with emily - ya her boyfriend and blah blah she need me he hit her" all this shi*.
so she leaves, and as her car pulls out the drive i can see somone else in the car?! hum
ok i´m 28 and too old for this shi*
theres allways gotta be a game.
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TheBlade: I´m on the same boat.
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well ya i hate to sound like "captain obvious" this is an age old delema that will end up in me having to regulate these chicks.
at least it will justified when i start hearing "guys are all the same"
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thnks guys for the friendly ear.
at least it will justified when i start hearing "guys are all the same"
Well, I´ve been through the trenches out there myself and all you "young bucks" out there who haven´t been through yet...just wait, your time is coming. You will find somebody you really like and play the same B.S. game we all fall for. I can say that I´m done with all the games and really found someone who is really great to me, my car and our relationship. She doesn´t just look out for her wants as much as the others I have dated in the past. We´ve been together over two years and still going strong. She likes my Scort and is always asking if I need any help when it comes to fixing, tweeking or washing the Scort.
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Can´t ask much more in a g/f.
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All I can say bro, is keep your chin up and keep your eyes opened. Don´t let them start the game.
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Well, as for me, I think I´ve found the answer to your dillemna. After experiencing a lot of what you´re all lamenting about, I think I´ve finally found THE ONE. She´s everything I´ve always wanted. Heck, she even likes scorts- she sold me my 91!
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As much as I adore this girl, we are only friends, and I intend to keep it that way for the next couple years. Sure, I´ve told her how I feel about her, and I´ll take every oportunity I get to show her how very special she is to me. But until we´re ready to really consider a future together, no romance between us. Sounds crazy?
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Trust me guys, this one is worth waiting for! Why wait you ask? Well, she´s going to college like 12 hrs away from me, and I think she needs a couple years to mature too. And I won´t ask a thing of her until I´m ready to make a lifetime commitment to her. I have no right to, in fact. I believe she´s the one for me and I´m willing to bet my life on it too!
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Basically, the dating scene sucks. It´s all games, and everyone is just out to use someone else for their own purposes. It was never meant to be this way, and I´m convinced there has to be a BETTER WAY! Here it is (IMHO):
friendship......courtship........marriage
Old-fashioned, yes! It worked so well for so long, and it´s still the only way to avoid all that BS today. Believe me, this makes life so much simpler and easier!
Feel free to disagree, argue, or just generally insult me if you must.
As much as I adore this girl, we are only friends, and I intend to keep it that way for the next couple years. Sure, I´ve told her how I feel about her, and I´ll take every oportunity I get to show her how very special she is to me. But until we´re ready to really consider a future together, no romance between us. Sounds crazy?
Trust me guys, this one is worth waiting for! Why wait you ask? Well, she´s going to college like 12 hrs away from me, and I think she needs a couple years to mature too. And I won´t ask a thing of her until I´m ready to make a lifetime commitment to her. I have no right to, in fact. I believe she´s the one for me and I´m willing to bet my life on it too!
Basically, the dating scene sucks. It´s all games, and everyone is just out to use someone else for their own purposes. It was never meant to be this way, and I´m convinced there has to be a BETTER WAY! Here it is (IMHO):
friendship......courtship........marriage
Old-fashioned, yes! It worked so well for so long, and it´s still the only way to avoid all that BS today. Believe me, this makes life so much simpler and easier!
Feel free to disagree, argue, or just generally insult me if you must.
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I haven´t dated since i was a senior in high school. first day of christmas break i took a girl out and she gave me the run around and i told her, forget you, bitch...and I haven´t dated since. besides i bet the next girl i date would get sick of me talking about my car and Gran Turismo 3
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just to keep everything even, i´ll insult ya! ehehe j/k dude
i quite agree actually, it´s honourable and kinda knight like
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myself, i´ve been single always. never dated, would like to date, but sh1t just don´t go my way in the women dep´t. ah well, just gotta keep feeding the Scort my income instead
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just to keep everything even, i´ll insult ya! ehehe j/k dude
i quite agree actually, it´s honourable and kinda knight like
myself, i´ve been single always. never dated, would like to date, but sh1t just don´t go my way in the women dep´t. ah well, just gotta keep feeding the Scort my income instead
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91scortgtboy, first off I totally admire and commend you for your commitment to your daughter. It´s not her fault she was born into a messed-up situation. Love her, and teach her well so that she´ll handle life better than her mom did. What you described about your ex is pretty common I think, and gives us all some insight into femininity.
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Yeah, us guys are not unique in using relationships to have our own needs met. Girls do it just as much, only in different ways. You see, when a woman gives herself physically, she at the same time gives herself emotionally. In other words, she becomes dependent on you to meet her needs. Her greatest need is to be cherished and cared for.
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I´m totally not knocking women. This is how they were created to be. This is how they were meant to react. Only this was all intended to happen within the safety of marriage, where two people had been joined by a commitment to place the other´s needs ahead of their own out of love for one another.
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So guys, it´s up to us to value the precious girls around us, and to treat them with the honor they deserve!
91 LX 5dr 107k, 94 LX 3dr sport 32k
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91scortgtboy, first off I totally admire and commend you for your commitment to your daughter. It´s not her fault she was born into a messed-up situation. Love her, and teach her well so that she´ll handle life better than her mom did. What you described about your ex is pretty common I think, and gives us all some insight into femininity.
91 LX 5dr 107k, 94 LX 3dr sport 32k
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Yeah, man, I can guarantee that if you keep doing the same things, you´ll continue to get the same results.
It´s so much less complicated if you can start out friends, and that´s the only good basis for a relationship anyway. If you find that you have feelings for someone, you´ll know what you need to do next. If you truly love someone, you´ll do what´s best FOR THEM.
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Good luck and hope it all works out for you!
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Yeah, man, I can guarantee that if you keep doing the same things, you´ll continue to get the same results.
It´s so much less complicated if you can start out friends, and that´s the only good basis for a relationship anyway. If you find that you have feelings for someone, you´ll know what you need to do next. If you truly love someone, you´ll do what´s best FOR THEM.
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